♡Family and Friends of a Nursing Student♡
Did you realize when you selected Nursing as your major it was not just going to affect yourself? Sure maybe you thought about your future patients, but what about those in the present, those we call family and friends? Did you know when you went to your first nursing class that you were taking away from the time you spend with love ones to attend class, study sessions, clinical, labs, and simulations? Your family and friends now look forward to scheduled birthday parties and weddings just hoping to see you for a few hours until the next event. I had no idea when I was applying to several schools that not only my life was changing, but those around me were going through a transition because of it too. I decided to briefly ask about how it felt to be friends or family of a nursing student and these are the responses I received…
“Being friends with a nursing student requires a lot of understanding. We have to understand she’s not available 9/10 because she’s either studying or busy with clinical. Nonetheless, it makes me proud knowing she’s going to fulfill her dream career in no time :)” –KG
“I hope you can diagnose my kid so I can save myself trips to the ER, but I hope you never have to draw my blood.” –LP
“I’m proud to have a friend who’s a nursing student because it gives me the security that if I have any problems with my health, she’ll always know how to help me! I’ll always feel safe around her :)” –MP
“I’m annoyed and over hearing about it.” –JB
“I have been friends with Anna for 21 years and from the time I can remember, she has wanted to be a nurse. It is amazing to see her doing what she loves and I am proud of the hard work she puts into it everyday.” –SM
“I’m proud of you and you’ll be the first in our family to become a nurse.” –BB
“Being friends with a nursing student is so beneficial to me because I am also a nursing student and we encourage each other and help push each other to work hard. It’s also amazing to have someone who can relate to exactly how you are feeling and all the stress you’re going through.” –AN
“Although you seem stressed and overwhelmed know there is going to be a light at the end of the tunnel and it will all be worth it and I am proud of you throughout this journey.” –CB
“I know nursing is one of the hardest majors so I’m proud of how you handle it. You have your priorities straight, instead of going to parties and going on dates you stay in & study.” –AL
“It makes me feel less worried if you were to babysit my kids because I know you would have the right training and skills to assist them if they needed help.” –KB
…Some responses sounded familiar to those conversations I would squeeze in during quick lunch dates, others really touched my heart. Although, I knew the people above were my supporters I did not actually know my personal schedule, struggles, and stress affected them and made them proud that I am striving to achieve my goal no matter what obstacles stand in the way. It is important to always recognize and be thankful for those who help push and guide you. Thank you to all my friends and family I appreciate you all more than you could ever imagine. You make everyday as a nursing student easier.♡